Many of us were taught to stay busy as a way to “deal with grief”.   In reality, staying busy is just a distraction technique.

Most of us grew up with the same tired advice for coping with heartache, fear, grief and loss: “Get Over it, Get Past it, Get

Last year I moved from a home in farm country to an apartment in the city. Although the pace of this new place is not

Last July I was working diligently to organize my life. To see whether, with enough structure and help, I could keep all the balls in

We live in a world that is happy to discuss sex and weirdness and all manner of personal things… but not genuine emotions. Particularly not

As I unpack boxes and work to create order and beauty in my new space I have been fascinated to see metaphors unfolding, about stuff